SUICIDE is a form of loss of life which in majority of instances is faced as an atrocious culmination of life, and an aggressive disintegration of present relations. (Mishara, 1995) it is stated that on an average six people have to undergo painful agony for each suicide case committed. While nearly 5000 suicide cases are reported annually in England and Wales and 800000 globally, the toll that suicide brings about is huge. ("Editorial: Helping people bereaved by suicide," 2003) the conventional perspective with regard to suicidology has been that suicide outcomes from a buildup of conditions within the person that culminates in intended end of one's life. These conditions of excruciating grief have been referred as due to lot of causes that can be ascribed to personal as well as social reasons inclusive of the impacts of ill social unification and normlessness, revulsion and hostility on others against the individual, abrupt, interpersonal loss or hesitancy towards interpersonal belongings, and an urge to liberate oneself from unbearable pressures. (Mishara, 1995)

Incidence of suicide happens in almost all the nations and has been recorded since the bygone eras. In spite of considerable development in fathoming the reasons behind suicide, the detection of high-risk groups and the growth of a variety of checks and deterrence programs for suicidal people, there has been considerably minimal alarm for the influence of suicide. Successful suicides, attempted suicides, suicide ideas have deep impact on families, friends and people extending assistance. Suicide impacts the structure of the society and cultural differences impact the character of the ramifications of the behavior of the suicidal ideation. People who have decided to put an end to their lives, as also those who tried to commit suicide albeit unsuccessfully, might also face the outcome of their suicidal attitude in their lives. Regardless of a superior stage of expertise and education, the people working in assisting suicidal people have the threat if finally facing a loss or more than one loss through suicide. Among the most understandable and touching issues regarding the brunt of suicide is the consequence of demise by suicide on the family, buddies and the society at large. (Mishara, 1995)

Those who fail in their suicide attempts suffer the effect of societal stigmas. And they pull on with their life with shambles having intensely imprinted physical, mental as well as social blemishes. Nevertheless, for a suicidal death, the most abrupt effect on suicide falls upon the family and friends. The effect is most visible in the mourning reaction following the death by suicide. Demise of a dear person always gives major mourning response that has been well recorded in the research writings. It has been well recorded that majority of individuals who try suicide speak about their plans with regard to their wish to put a full stop to their lives with their buddies and family members. Coming to know that an acquaintance or a family member is considering suicide surely has some effect and mostly these acquaintances look for assistance to address the issues of the possibly suicidal individual. For every individual who looses their lives by suicide there are a lot of family members and several acquaintances and relatives who intensely suffer due to the bereavement. (Mishara, 1995)

Since the immediate kin of the victim endure through mourning, several reactions and surviving techniques are employed since every person passes through distinct outcomes to the intricate loss. Mourning implies to "all the physiological, emotional, attitudinal, and social reaction systems shown by a person after the loss (normally because of the death) of an important individual or matter." (Cvinar, 2005) Important added factors which possibly might impact mourning following suicide comprise age of the dead, the value of the relationship, behavior of the bereaved to the loss, and the cultural attitudes. Fears with regard to individual safety might be an attribute for members of the family, particularly when some members of the family has suffered from mental sickness or committed suicide in the past. Formal methods demanded by a potential suicide and media interest might even impact the encounters of people who have suffered loss. Possibly stressful phases of the coroner's inquest covers the holdup prior to the inquest, the environment at the courtroom of a lot of inquests, details of hearing of the type of the death and postmortem examination, and a feeling that the ultimate objective is to get a formal decision in this regard. Wrong proofs or a lack of sensitive media reporting can also result in difficulties for the people who have lost a dear one. (("Editorial: Helping people bereaved by suicide," 2003)

Loss after a suicide is increasingly made problematic by the complex psychological effect of the action on the people who are very near to the victim. Matters get worse by the view of the society that factors causing the suicide is a disappointment by both the victim as well as the family to address some emotional matters and finally society puts the responsibility of the loss on the people left behind by the deceased. This personal or societal disgrace puts an inimitable pressure on the process of bereavement that in certain instances needs medical interference. (Cvinar, 2005) Coming to terms after experiencing a great pain following the loss of a family member is unbearable. Sorrow and reactions of remorse, refuting techniques and psychosomatic problems happen among the members of the family. (Rudestram, 2005) People having encountered the demise of a near and dear family member experience a phase of anguish and grief that does not end quickly. Emotional reaction, like crying and mourning, differ across cultures and personal character. The mourning and bereavement let persons in woe to ultimately reach conditions of adjustment, reconstruction, and pledge thereby salvaging steadiness and equilibrium in their lives. (Ceglia; Pfeffer, 1999)

During the event of a suicide, the family is intensely disgraced and discomfited. Family members appear at a loss to reply to interrogations regarding the causes of loss of a person's life, if it could have been thwarted and who is to be blamed for the suicide etc. The standing of the family is tainted, regardless of the consideration and help extended by acquaintances and relatives. This disgrace is what the deceased family members have to endure throughout their lives. Suicide is such an appalling incident, that even after years, the disgrace lingers. With the children growing into adulthood, the reminiscences of the suicide go on bothering them. They attempt to conceal it from acquaintances and while the reality emerges they prefer not to discuss about the issue. (Garon, 2006)

It has been found by Silverman, Range and Overholser that the survivors of suicide had increased chances to put the blame on themselves. Besides, they were also increasingly prone to jeopardize their health in self-damaging behaviors. (Rubel, 1999) Those who survive suicide have the thought behind the minds regarding the happenings and conversations and question themselves time and again, in case they could have acted in some manner to avert the misfortune. A vehement sense of culpability is present. Survivors all the time consider that they could have done something, although they are not aware what it is, to thwart the suicide. Maybe they could have accorded more interest, showed more affection and care and the like. The record of probable actions persists. (Garon, 2006) in a 1991 study undertaken by Miles and Demi concerning parental bereavement and also the blame reactions of parents of those children who committed suicide, accident or other protracted illness, the authors discovered that 92% of the survivors of suicide had the feeling of guilt. Even though all three groups stated increased intensities of guilt, only the survivors of suicide had guilt as the maximum upsetting cause. The reason behind death was too a factor with 63% of the suicide survivor parents stating guilt as a result of the demise. The conviction that performance or the lack of it by the parents was responsible for causing the suicide of the children and it was extremely rampant in the group of suicide survivors. (Rubel, 1999)

Coupled with the guilt, there was also a feeling of desertion. The survivors get a feeling of being deceived and shunned by the victim. They consider that his independent behavior is inequitable to them. A feeling of "how could you do this to us?" crosses their mind. Even though they find it hard to acknowledge, they may be even have an amount of anger against the victim. The family undergoes immense pressures to hush up the suicide if the situation so warrants. Death under any situation is difficult to deal with; nevertheless death resulting out of suicide is something even more difficult. Along with the loss of a dear one, however exceeding that, people feel ashamed to appear in public. Further there is even a loss of standing, loss of acquaintance, loss of self-confidence at the time when the suicide comes to be known to all and the gossip does its rounds. (Garon, 2006) in research studies,…